Friendship day is about to arrive and today on Cool Digital Photography, we will share some of the most beautiful images of friendship, but before that we want to discuss some changing notions about Friendship.
Sharon is all exhausted because the busy day ate her up and she has got those tons of invites for the Sunday party. Avoiding them all, she decides to pamper herself staying all home. Loaded with her thoughts and packed in the sense of tranquility, she had no plans for this first Sunday of August. Since long, she was keeping herself abstained from her much larger “group of formal and mutual friends.”
“Smaller circle ensures deeper friendships”, she read it somewhere and was deeply moved by the hypothesis. The night expands and she is ready to pat herself to sleep, but could not.
Finally, she calls her most trusted friend, for whom she was sure, would reciprocate positively if she wants to inhale some fresh air outside, at any time of the day and any day of the week. But then she put her phone aside. Maybe she wanted something more spontaneous and random. Something which only a bigger group of knowns can give you. Here she was craving for that “group of unknown friends.” We call them “”so-called friends.”
With them, we don’t share much of us, but there are large scopes of spontaneity. There are no personal understandings, but that keeps the curiosity blooming. There is no tangle of expectations and disappointments.
You get to meet all categories, introverts with deeper thoughts, extroverts with showering compliments, party animals!
It likewise turns out to be clear that if we neglect to sustain our friendships we will come up short in our different connections, particularly those of an emotional nature. The expression “friends first” regularly gets rejected because it is trite and old hat – however, the clever thing about clichés is that they are frequently valid. Along with these lines, if we need to be a decent spouse, it is important that we value the notion of companionship and support our particular friendships – notwithstanding when, in our minds, it might be “less” than we may need.
In this way, whenever some person lets you know that they just wish to be friends – don’t let your insecurities wander all through mind and moan in displeasure. They could be offering you something valuable and real–a portion of themselves. And after that, it remembers the expressions of the Golden Rule: “do unto others as you would have them do unto you.” By being great and heavenly friends, you are being divine to another.
Enjoying Autumn with friends( © Alberto Suárez)